Sexual fantasies have a wide range of meaning to each individual person or couple. Some may fantasize about anal, while others fantasize about being bound and gagged. These desires come from experiences that we’ve had and enjoyed, along with experiences that we haven’t had but know deep down how much we’d enjoy it.
This being said, it’s not always easy to reveal your fantasies to your partner or hookup—there can be that nagging voice in your head that says, “what if they don’t like it?” Just remember that if the person you’re with is hesitant to try out something new that excites you in the bedroom, that doesn’t mean that you need to drop the subject entirely; it should be an open and continuous conversation. After all, if you’re having the same sex and never change things up, you might end up getting a little bored!
One of the biggest sexual fantasies is BDSM. Many people have this overarching fantasy because of how variety there is within BDSM. It can range from a pair of handcuffs to being caned while strapped to a Saint Andrew’s Cross. Don’t be surprised, however, if after you’ve been spanked while in a pair of handcuffs you find yourself wanting a little more.
If you know anything about BDSM, chances are you know what a Dungeon is as well. At first thought, these may seem like places that you’d never visit even in your dizziest daydreams, but that doesn’t have to be entirely true! While you may not be ready to visit a BDSM veteran’s sex Dungeon where there are folks strapped to walls and bound to tables (though if you do feel ready, finding a Dungeon near you may just be a simple Google away), this doesn’t mean Dungeons are inaccessible to you.
If you can’t go to the Dungeon, bring the Dungeon to you!
What? Bring a Dungeon to me?
It’s not as difficult or elaborate as it may seem. Having a Dungeon doesn’t need to mean having a basement with BDSM gear on every wall; you can build your Dungeon bit by bit right in your bedroom—you can call your bedroom a Dungeon even with just one piece of BDSM gear! Dim the lights and strap the sub up with a pair of leather cuffs and you’ve made yourself a mini Dungeon with easy-to-store gear!
But once you’ve gotten started, the Dungeon can only grow from there. Once you’ve gotten some small restraints, you’ll need something more exciting than hands to do the spanking. Match your cuffs with a leather and suede tail flogger—start off soft with some light licks of the suede side, then get rough with some sharp slaps with the leather side.
When you’ve gone this far, you may be ready to go farther. Or maybe you’re already experienced with BDSM and don’t want to make the trek to a Dungeon; look no further, your bedroom Dungeon is right at your fingertips.
Strap up to a whole new level with an Over the Door Bondage Cross. There’s no need for a giant Saint Andrew’s Cross in the middle of your bedroom when you can have an easy to set up and easy to store bondage cross that’s just as effective! Step up your whipping game as well with a silicone cane. Leave a long mark with this unbreakable cane—silicone is softer, smoother, and much more durable than Rattan.
There are tons and tons of more steps to take in evolving a bedroom BDSM dungeon. Collars, Gags, Swings, Bondage Bars, Fuck Machines, Forced Orgasm Belts, Sex Benches, and much much more!
Until next time...