Have fun while staying at home!
Good news: I’ve decided that I am going to post Sexploration tips and tricks every week or so for all of our faithful fans! But first... what exactly is sexploration? Sexploration is about trying new things in the bedroom (or outside of it ;P). Beyond that, it's about becoming comfortable with your own sexuality, as well as the way others around you express their sexuality.
People often like to stick with what they are comfortable with - which, for some could mean missionary with the lights off and covers on, while for others it could mean ONLY participating in BDSM with Collars and Cuffs.
Everyone has something that makes them feel sensual and sexual, but here at the Fetish Academy I want myself and all of you to be comfortable with exploring it all -- and if you don’t like it, at least you can say you tried! Who knows? You could be limiting yourself from a whole world of pleasure...
In my day-to-day life I am what most people would call an ‘undercover,' which means that in my everyday interactions, no one knows the half of how sexual I am behind closed doors. But today I am going to tell you about my first experience with anal sex and why solo fun might be the best way to ease into a new kink...
When I first started exploring anal play my first step was a butt plug. It was small stainless steel and had a jade green gem on the end! This was before I had ever tried anal sex--or anything more than a single finger in my bum for that matter--so I was a bit apprehensive and was definitely feeling very virginal… I made sure I had the best lube for the most comfortable first experience. My mind was all over the place; I wasn’t sure if it was going to work, if I was going to be able to get it out afterwards, and most of all... was it going to hurt?!
As I awkwardly maneuvered the plug and focused on my breathing, it became much more fun as I realized hey…this isn’t bad at all... actually, this is pretty great! And after it was in I didn’t need to do anything else...it did everything it needed to by just staying in place! ;)
I am glad I experienced my first time with real anal stimulation in a comfortable environment without rushing into it, and without a partner who may not have shared my desired pace or discretion. On my own, I felt like I was able to take in this moment and was only interested in exploring things for myself!
If you have a partner who you feel comfortable sexploring with, you can add Solo Sexploration to your repertoire when they are not around - or, for an extra twist, pleasure yourself and tell them to watch from the other side of the room. Their comfortable presence may be a huge confidence-booster and pleasure-inducer. Regardless of if you decide to Solo Sexplore totally on your own or with others, remember that trust in yourself and your partners is always the most important.
I hope that this Solo Sexploration can be a helpful and healthy way to try new things for all of you. This solo prep can get you excited and prepared to try this with a partner without the pre-sex jitters! Happy humping y'all!
Fearless Leader, Female Founder, and Mistress of Pleasure
The Fetish Academy
The owner and founder of The Fetish Academy, Princess Cosplay works to offer customers the tools, toys , and resources they need to explore and play. Her mission is to create a judgement- free community where anyone can feel welcome to discover new and exciting sources of pleasure, excitement, and fun. To learn more about her journey and get tips, tricks, and an inside look into the life of a female entrepreneur in the business of pleasure, check out our blog at
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